She wants to be more emotional independent..

Y said this year she has learnt to be more emotionally independent. She said she had learnt not to vocalize her fears and problems too much, worrying that it can only upset others more.

她认为过一味地向人吐苦水，只不过是会把烦恼带给别人。
她只想带给别人快乐，她不想带给别人烦恼。
所以，她决心要变得更坚强。

但是，我也担心，一向来需要找人倾诉的她，
这么一来，不是会憋得很辛苦吗？

I asked : Why do you need to be so restrictive?

Y replied : It’s okay. I will learn to cope. Just like you what⁺. Knowing you for more than 10 years, you also never share your concerns and problems before.

Q was just beside and she added : Maybe Nanzi never got concerns and problems mah.

I was pretty speechless.

By the way, “⁺Just like you what” is 「就好像你嘛」 and certainly not 「就是喜欢你嘛」。

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人生在世，有哪个没有烦恼呢？
我尝试以画来讲解。

你们猜一猜我想画什么？
After guessing just click on the picture itself for the answer.



哈哈。
这「苦」字好像都写在每一个人的脸上嘛。

For Q to think/comment that I’m problem-free is.. mm.. heh..
It is just usually not my style to talk about it.

话说回来，
我还真的不善于谈我的「烦恼」与「苦楚」。
若是要谈也从来不超过实情的一半。
剩余的都会让时光冲淡。

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最近心情不悦，也是在等时光将之冲淡 …
功力不足，不悦的心情偶尔还写在脸上 …
友人问起，我也只是以「不舒服」带过 …
回避一下，表情整理一番，才敢再出发 …

咳 …
好多话想说，但是不能说 …
好多话该说，但是没有说 …

Mm …
不然今天也试一试到海边让海风冲淡，一切随风飘散 …

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For your easy reading, the text in the picture says :
Ladies and gentlemen, this is captain speaking. Firstly, I'd like to thank you for choosing to fly Manadarin Airlines. As we taxi out to the runway please make yourself comfortable... and for those of you sitting on the right side of the plane... please look to your LEFT!