I was out for the entire night and I came back home at round 7am on the first day of the lunar new year. A little surprised that my mum had already woke up and was preparing some dishes.
Me : Why you wake up so early?
Mum : To cook lor.
Me : Orh..
Erm.. I didn't feel anything special at the moment. I was a little tired and was getting ready to "hit the sack". I walked away.
My mum, thinking that I was still around, continued (but I could still hear her of course)..
Mum : If not when we all go out to bai nian later, it is not easy for you all to find food.
I was speechless.
True. Many (if not all) vegetarian stalls will not be opened for the first two days of the lunar new year. Only the restaurants are opened. And if I go out for any bai nian activities, I will practically eat nothing. I don't take much of the new year goodies also.
But, I don't mind actually. It's obvious that I have "reserve" mah. :p
I can go without food for long hours. I just need something to drink.
I walked back to the kitchen and said...
Me : Wa! Thank you.
Yes, I was rather touched by the demonstration of the caring maternal instinct. That meal tasted especially nice.
We may only have an impermanence existence on earth. Yet, certain things are simply priceless.
At the same time I was thinking :
How could I assist Xiao Di, making it easier for him as well? Haiz..
I know he has grown. But..
Haiz.. I may only "irk" him further, if I were to try..
How things have changed and how time flies... mm...
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我听过有人这么说:
你们如果有一天真的成熟了,你们真的能够体会了,那就是你们长大的时候了。你看看一个小孩子他要到什么时候,才能够体会父母的苦心?是不是他也为人父母啊?
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Just how much our Daddy and Mummy have done for us, without us realising...
"I walked back to the kitchen and said...
Me : Wa! Thank you."
Haha, I can imagine the surge of happiness in your Mummmy when you said that... So heartwarming... =)
We Love Daddy and Mummy...
(^-^)
什么时候才能体会父母的苦心?...
我本身觉得:
其实,每个人在成长的过程中,
就会一点一滴地在了解父母的苦心。
体会,可能没有一个固定的时候吧?
懂得体会,或许更须懂得珍惜...
Oo, i'm also quite. . (very) actually, attached to my mum too ; )
Like to hold her arm and squeeze like my bolster
;p Sayang sayang ^___^
Okie, i sound like some blabla complex but i'm not. Tian Xia de Ma Ma Always The Best =)
Fly :
同意你的论调。谢谢!=)
不过,我也想再换个角度谈谈。
我总认为若是一个人他真正『懂得体会』,他一定『懂得珍惜』。
换言之,挂在嘴边的『懂得体会』,就不一定『懂得珍惜』了。
我就以一个简单的实例来加以阐述。
我有一友,她也算孝顺的了。她的老妈子脚比较没有力,她时常还得背或扶着老妈子步行。不过看不惯、听不惯的总还是会跟老妈子顶几句。
等到她怀了孕、生了子、亲身体验养儿育女的辛苦,她才大悟母亲的伟大。她说,她再也不敢跟老妈子顶嘴了,她只有唯命是从。
哈哈...
如你所说『体会』或许没有一个固定的时候,可是它应该会随着我们的成长而会有层次上的分别。我只是学习发表。我也不知道。
Jun Jie :
Cool! Keep it this way. =)
Impressive. You almost brought me to tears as well. What mothers do to their children are indeed wonderful~!
Repay them by being more obedient old man =P
-Za|- :
哇! 我觉得你好孝顺哦。=)
有人曾经告诉我孝顺可以(勉强)分为三种。
一者、适亲。即是让父母过的安逸、舒适。
再者、顺亲。即是顺从父母的指示、指导、交待。一切吩咐,唯命是从。
三者、拔亲。即是自修且引导父母同修,依循一条光明大道,好让其在百岁年后能往生天界。
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Aiyo..
我讲多了。上学咯。
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