Self-Restraint (for me)?

K made an irresistable offer.
I like it (and used to yearn for it in the past).

I said "thank you", but politely declined.

Somehow, I learn what I like may not result in the best outcome for everyone.

I still like it and appreciate K's kind offer deeply, and it was that little self-restraint keeping me at bay, for the good of everyone, I think. Haha...

心中或许有不少的「想要」
我在瓜分为「可不可以要」和「应不应该要」。
就算机会现前...
我希望我还可以理智多一点点。 :o)

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有一位圣者这么说：

人必须有自尊。
自尊心是成就圣贤不可缺少的要素。

自尊则能自敬，自敬则能自重，自重则能自爱。

自尊必不自卑，自敬必不自贱；
自重必不自暴，自爱必不自弃。

能庄重，能庄严，能肃敬。
不苟且，不散漫，自可威光照人。