Sunday, June 08, 2008

My Last Post…

It’s near to 4 years and I think it’s about time (to stop). :o)

Ha.. I believe you have already realised, I’m also not contributing much lately anyway. There are enough sites out there to keep you entertained and enriched. So… Need not miss my writing at all. :p

I have enough fun of the feel of being a writer-of-anyhow and I certainly have learnt quite bit in the process. Haha.. Thanks for all the readership (from some pals, some *little pals, some other readers – known and unknown, local and overseas). You all are just great, accompanying me and kept me going on writing all these while. And of course, thanks to J for the initial encouragement for me to start a blog. If you remember, you were the one explaining to me what a blog is all about. :o)

I may or may not return to writing-of-any-sort. But even if I do, I don’t think it would be here anymore. Must try something new mah.

Once again, thanks.
Bye-bye..

祝大家身心安康!


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Sunday, June 01, 2008

Thank-You Power

I was in a store browsing something I like. A sales assistance was nearby and she explained the discount that tagged along. I can only thank her.

Oh, I noted another thing I like and it comes in a series. She was kind enough to personally bring me to the other section where the related items are. But sadly, those related items which I was interested in were not sales items. Nevertheless, I have to thank her.

I was left alone to slowly browse through those items, the way I like it for I don't really like to be so closely monitored all the time.

I picked my choices, willing to get those not-on-sales items as well. I walked towards the cashier and along the way I noted that sales assistance was nearby. I detoured a bit and approached her to say "thanks" again.

To my surprise....

She : Hope you like them.

Me : Yes. Sure. I think I like them.

I smile and was ready to leave for the cashier.
Just when my back was turned to her...
She called out : Erm... You wait. You follow me.

I obeyed and I tailed.
She went near the customer service section, scanned something and came out with a piece of printed note.
She passed the note to me and said : You can use this.

It was a 20% discount voucher. Wahoo..

I think she is so cool! :o)

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There were just countless of instances where I get unpublished (not stipulated) discounts by just some simple exchange of smiles and saying "thank you".

No no no... I am not suggesting how infectious or how charming my smiles are, or how powerful are my "thank you-s". I so believe you have your fair shares of discounts that came your way in a surprise manner. Certainly you were behaving very well then. Haha...

所以,
这只是提醒你、我、他。
人的心情若是愉悦的,什么都好商量。
人的行为若是有礼的,什么也有得讲。

再说,
莞尔一笑,你也会有一种自然魅力散发。:o)


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~~ 野花 ~~
是的
幸福就是一朵野花
用自己的生命展示美丽
这就是幸福了

@ Cafe..

Wa.. I actually got a chance to sign in a café. Quite a break-through for me lor.

It was a music-school event, with all their students and teachers coming together to put up a concert-of-sort in a café. I am not at all related to the music-school, and so I became the so-called guest-singer.

Haha.. I am exaggerating a little lah. Not that glamorous lah.

I know how nervous I can get, and hence it is not likely I will put myself through this voluntarily.

Y enrolled himself in a key-board course some time back and so he is a student in that music-school. He was required to put up an item with the keyboard, but he needed someone to sing to his music, if not… or else… it will be just … erm… rather incomplete.

I was approached.

How to say “no”?
Aiyo… I know I will go through those nervous symptoms all over again.

And indeed, as usual, I was enveloped by nervousness : more frequent visit to the gent, heartbeat hastened, breathing a bit erratic, icy-cold hands, the drink was tasteless before my event but the same drink miraculously became nicer after my event,…

I know we will get through and we did. Haha..

I can imagine Y may approach me again in his next performance.
I can imagine myself in a situation difficult to say “no”. I don’t mind helping a pal of course, but I know I will be so so nervous and may end up affecting his performance.

By the way, listening and watching the other people performing on stage can be rather enjoyable and relaxing, but not when I’m up there myself. Still, putting myself through all these can be really funny, exciting and interesting when I think about it after the event.

So, I think I will continue to say "yes" when approached by friends and when my schedule allows. But I seriously don’t know when I can ever conquer such silly nervous-breakdown. Perhaps never….

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Becoming stronger..

A little pal (S2) asked, “Mr Nanzi, will you be feeling irritated that I keep coming to you for (math) consultation?”

First, I must add that I am quite sure I was not wearing a I-am-so-irritated-expression at that time.

S2's expression was that kind of worrisome.
I know S2 is so stressed up (not just with the subject I am tutoring…)
I know S2 is trying hard (yet not performing…)

S2 aims high… and yet that becomes one of the primarily sources of worries. Mm..

Familiar?

I think we should aim high, as life without aims/purposes can be rather derailing in nature. Ha… I was told so many people can actually feel so lost, so xian, so lifeless during the golden vocation period between semesters.

But coping with our individual’s (high) aims seems to be another issue after all. But please still keep trying…

I believe in trying…
But most importantly, I believe in taking in (bravely) whatever outcome that comes along. To take it (the outcome, however negative) all in with a smile is not easy.
But what else can we do?

「顺」时是喜。我们会不会喜出望外,也容易得意忘形而成…
「逆」时是悲。人人总会是感伤万分,也容易怨天尤人而成…


想想看…

曾经处于「逆镜」的我们,是不是也从中学习了很多?

曾经处于「逆镜」的我们,

是不是更会懂得珍惜曾经被我们视为微不足道的「顺镜」?


使我们变得更坚强的往往是「逆镜」而非「顺镜」。


所以…

顺逆皆恭喜!!


So, I believe S2 will become stronger. :o)

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子离回墨子说:「多讲些话有好处吗?」

墨答子说:
「蛤蟆、青蛙、苍蝇、蚊子、… 不分日夜地鸣叫,
嗡嗡做响个不停,即使是叫得口干舌燥,人们被吵心烦意乱,
有时还会令人怒心横生,杀害它们呢!
但是,那每天为人们报晓的公鸡,
每天准时地在天亮之前长鸣数声,
就能把天下的人都唤醒起来,人们还会感谢它们哩!
因此,多讲话又有什么好处呢?
要紧的是要在适当的时机,讲适当的话啊!」

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Just Weird..

(1)
An retired old man said (not to me, of course) :
I'm different. I am not like the others. If I like someone, I will say it. I tell you. I like you.

Oh well, you may like his frankness.

But how about when you know that this old man is already married? He is still living together with his wife and seemingly always projecting the image of a loving couple. He has a few children, all of which are older than me, I supposed.

Plus…
He is making such statement, declaring his love / affection to another married woman.

This is just weird.

But I guess, it is still nothing new.

In the past, I heard of some flirts proclaiming :
我没有错。
我心中有爱。我可以爱很多人。


Dotz

心中有爱?
那为什么他们那一种爱反而会带来更多伤害?
人与人之间,应该不只是有男女之间的暧昧吧?



If you don’t find this old man weird enough, then I believe you will find the next girl weird.


(2)
The entire world tries to do their part in helping the victims in the recent China-Sichuan Earthquake. I think the world should.

Amidst all this, a young girl in China broke her silence and commented freely how she felt about the earthquake.

I find the clip weird, disturbing, just-not-right…
It actually provokes angry-of-sort…
I don’t even feel like embedding the clip here…
But I still got to direct you to the clip (or else you wouldn’t understand what I am saying or what I am feeling)…

The clip : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGKFY1yqc0w

Haiz
Something is just not right…

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Fast?

Fast : as a verb and not as an adjacent.

I choose to eat less(er) : mini fasting.
Light breakfast : some cereal and bread.
Light lunch : just fruits and a few pieces of biscuit.
Normal dinner : most of the times, even asking for less(er) portion.
Avoid supper : unless being jio-ed.

This had been going on for a few months.
Much like I am on a diet? Mm… Not really.
Much like I am hit by the economy? MmHaha.

I admit I do feel a bit of hunger from time to time. But I choose to let that wee bit of hunger lingers on.
If our muslim friends can literally fast from morn till dust for a month, then mine is such a small case.
If there are now so many people out there feeling ultimate hunger every minute every second, then mine is not even worth any mention. Indeed, there are so many people now not knowing when their next (proper) meal is going to come by… Haiz..

Oh, no worries, I still like food and enjoy eating very much. :o)
我只是选择让我的小肚子无时无刻都留下一点小空间…
随时能容纳… 容纳…
随时能提醒… 提醒…


I don’t think I’m in any sense feeling weaker. On the contrary, I feel just as good, if not even better. Oh.. On a lighter note : just yesterday morning, I took a walking test and I even broke my personal record, covering 2km well within 14 min. :o)

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有一位圣者这么说:

镜要无尘,才能照出黑白,心要无私,才能明辨是非;
玉要无暇,才能光泽耀人,心要无欲,才能悉通天地


Monday, May 19, 2008

Back to the wheels…

Yes! I’m back to the wheels again.
I picked up my pair of in-line skate (which had rested for near to 5 months) and put it on again, and covered near to 20 km in just two days.

那里跌倒就要那里爬起来。
Yes, I glided passed the very spot where I fell (hard).

Nope. I have not fully recovered. In fact, I’m still undergoing treatment and certainly, I don’t think my right hand can support another fall.
Then, why not wait?
我浑身精力总得解放!哈哈。。
Just going slow(er) is always safe. :o)

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画面不一定很美
人物也不一定很美
可从他们专注的表情上
我还是看到了幸福


Sunday, May 18, 2008

Strange Feeling of “what I left behind”…

These days, I have a strange feeling of “what I left behind”…

In 2004, a few months after I returned from Bali, the second bombing occurred right at the place I toured.

In 2006, about a week or so after I left for New Zealand, a rather massive flood occurred right here causing pretty heavy losses and inconvenience. And not too long after I returned from New Zealand, I learnt there were some floods happening over there.

Anyone following this blog may know I landed on Guangzhou and Sichuan just last year. The snowstorm at Guangzhou not too longer and the recent earthquake over at Sichuan very recently… Haiz.. It just feel different to see the land (and the people over there) I had just touched to be so affected and so torn apart.

And thus, the feeling of “what I left behind”…


灾难后的「善后」处理,真不简单。
还好有相当多的善心人士。
希望灾民们,虽然关关难过、还能关关过。

这些年来…
有没有觉得天灾人祸相当多?
难道是因果成熟的加速?你认为呢?

我也在想:灾难真的不能避免吗?

I shall leave the thinking to the individuals…


Anyway, allow me to share with you a bit of “coincidences” …

1 25 : 雪灾 = 天灾 (1 + 2 + 5 = 8)
3 14 : 藏独 = 人祸 (3 + 1 + 4 = 8)
5 12 : 地震 = 地灾 (5 + 1 + 2 = 8)

And,
08 08 08 日 :奥运会!
是巧合吗?

算一算,四川地震发生那天正好是距离北京奥运会还差 88天。

Saturday, May 10, 2008

C9-L3

Strangely, I actually feel refreshing that I'm now officially C9-L3 Permanent.
Oh, that’s one of our army medical status.

就是有一种新鲜感。

This can be translated to :
..... Servicemen not required to take IPPT/RT.
..... Fit for operational duties at Bases only.
..... Not fit for field duties / exercises.

This verdict comes when I haven't even started my reservist yet. Mm..
Oh, not that I'm so looking forward to it, but... I'm just feeling a little different.

就是感觉有一点与众不同。

Somehow, I am now more determined to exercise, although in theory I can eat all I can, even until my figure expanded till beyond recognition. :P

在运动方面,我反而多了一点推动力。

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Thursday, May 08, 2008

Letting Off..

Vg had done wrong. He dragged Jd into his plot. Jd knew it wasn't okay, but found it difficult to say "no" to a friend. So, in theory both are "wrong".

在他们的面前,我没有隐藏我的失望。

If their deed were to be exposed, they could be as good as disappear from their college.

我也不过是实话实说。

I was merely painting the picture of the possible outcomes of their action (or rather an action initiated by Vg, but passively involving Jd). And... it kind of hurt me to see Jd cried. He is already a man of few words, then with tears slowly flowing down his cheeks, we can imagine just how silent the session can be.

《沉默》加上《眼泪》:我会融化。

When asked what should be the appropriate action, Vg suggested to let Jd off, and he shall be the one taking all the responsibility. That was brave. But things never work out in such a way in reality and Jd will never be let off of the "official hook".

I am also in moral dilemma .
我不能默默无声。要不然,他们可能将来会小过不断,而大过接踵而来。
我若是稍微吭声。很显然,他们铁定会被逐出校门外,而没有翻身之机。


左思右想 ...
I actually decided (in my own personal capacity) to let them off.
I know I'm wrong in all “official sense”.
But to see how poor Jd can be implicated in such a way, my heart somewhat softened and I chose to "cover up" for them.
There were a few criterions I specified that I expect them to do (of course).

我为什么要这么做?
我又不是邀功,那么多事干什么?
我一只眼睁、一 只眼闭不就相安无事了吗?
我这么做值得吗?
万一我也被牵连呢?

我是在《包容》还是在《纵容》?
若是一味的《包容》也是一种《纵容》...


Since I had already decided doing so,
I have to take it as my responsibility to ensure their growth, I think.
如今,这一件事,
我唯一能得到安慰的便是他们的成长与进步。


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Saturday, May 03, 2008

Another Flat Tyre : Some Lessons Learnt.

It started from taking a route that otherwise need not be taken. Mm

Skipping the details of the irrelevance..

I realised the steering-feeling of my car at a carpark seemed so odd. I decided to come down and check. Bingo! I was right. The front right tyre was flat flat flat. Mm

It was 9pm and I was already quite exhausted from the toll of the day.

Nevertheless, without much hesitation I folded up my sleeves, I emptied my car-boot, took out the spare tyre and the necessary tools… but but.. only to realize my right shoulder hasn’t really regain the power. So how to change the tyre myself??!!

Felt strangled.

Idea struck.

I called ComfortDelgro 24-hr hotline for breakdowns and towing (6553-1111). The operating lady asked if I am a kind of member of whatever. I anyhow hamtam-ed that I am a UDRIVE member (without any idea how relevance that piece of information was), and they said the promotion is still on and therefore they shall sent the mechanics to me free-of-charge.

Felt lucky.

They promised the mechanics shall reach me in 45-min time. That was bearable. I took a book and went to a nearby stall to la-kopi, relaxing. I needed a break. The mechanics reached before 30 min was up.

The mechanics was efficient. All was done by 10pm. After the tyre-switch, he simply took down some details from my self-print-out-udrive-membership-card. (Yes the membership card is a self-print-out-card as the membership is also free mah.)

Looking at the silly thin spare tyre on my M3 gave me a weird and insecure feeling. But it was already 10pm and hence… wait a minute. My concern must be a common one. Or rather, my concern must have all written all over my face. Before the mechanics left, he left me a contact saying a place not too far away provides tyre repair from 8:30am till about 1am everyday, if I was that worried.

I was game for it. I took down the general directions : one end of Balestier Road, near Quality Hotel, near one of the exits of CTE, near Fragrance Hotel, in front of a Chinese temple. I went down immediate after that. Not difficult to find. But the information on Fragrance Hotel was the most misleading as there are many Fragrance Hotels along Balestier Road, one more fragrance than the other perhaps. Haha.. Anyway, that company is Lee Huat Tyre & Battery Co.

The attention was immediate. I learnt that getting the spare tyre patched may cost $10. If the tyre is “un-patchable”, changing the whole tyre is another story.

Not too long after, I was on the road again, feeling good and more secured with 4 proper tyres once again.

Some lessons learnt :

(1) Many tyre designs nowadays usually flatten slowly unless the damage to it is really big. It is suggested to drive in to petrol kiosk to pump up the tyre and then drive to the nearest “rescue” workshop. If the journey to even the nearest “rescue” workshop is also quite far away, we may even consider pumping up the tyre a few times at petrol kiosks along the way.

(2) ComfortDelgro 24-hr hotline for breakdowns and towing coupling with Udrive membership proves useful. Free leh and rather efficient too.

(3) Unearthly hours to driver’s rescue is available (at Balestier Road). Pricing is also rather fair, I think.

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有人说爱情是一杯茶,时间一久就淡了
也有人说爱情更像是一个煲,时间越长越有滋味


Thursday, May 01, 2008

Time-Tight..

Softly uttered into our ears …
我知道大家都很忙碌、时间也很不够用。
可是这是我们的责任,我们还是要做的。


The rest went pretty silence…
We must be thinking of the piles of work (already) awaiting us.

该做的还是要做…

「忙碌」是不是现代人生活的写照?
不管我们从事什么,我们似乎都会相当忙碌。
只好选择要忙碌于什么。
不同的选择将会有不同的「收获」。


Responsibility seems to grow when we grow or when we know more.
长大了就要有所担当。
知道了就要去发挥。
明理的人就有责任。


I believe all of us wish to have more time at hand to fulfill our roles and responsibilities (and wishes, of course) meaningfully.
But…
On the note of equality, I remind myself none of us have a minute more or a minute less per day.


事情总是做不完...
也不一定做得好...
只要还是甘愿的来付出、就那一份心意、就那一份真心...
能接受!


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孩子
他们是落入凡间的精灵
那笑是可以让人忘記烦恼的

Saturday, April 26, 2008

The child learnt it from "you"....

They complained how bad this little boy has changed.

They don't have to say it as I saw it. A lady-friend of the child's mum saw how cute the child was and decided to pick him up. The child was unagreeable and reacted by kicking furiously. A while later, something didn't go the way he would like it to be, and he reacted by hitting others. Heh..

This little boy is not even 3 years old. It didn't matter whether his kicks or his punches were lethal. People present were just quite taken aback how the little child delivered them.

1 said, "This child is already becoming so bad."
2 said, "This is strange. It is not as if his mother never teaches him. In fact, his mother is very strick and is quite a disciplinarian."
1 asked, "What do you mean?"
2 replied, "Whenver the child is in the wrong, his mother will beat him. Sometimes, the mother really beats him hard, and scold and scold and scold. Haha.. The child will then run to his father."

More giggles..

3 added, "With a strict mother still like that? Wa.. I think in no time, he will only become worse and worse. I am so sure, just watch."

I was not really in a chatty mood, yet hearing such conversation taking place in front of me, I just feel like adding a little note, aiming to provoke their thoughts.

Me : I think the child could have learnt it from the adults closest to him.

They almost chorused, "Hey.. How can you say that?"

Me : You see. When the child did wrong, the adult didn't like it, and the adult reacted by spanking him. The possible lesson learnt by the child could be : hit the person if you don't like the things he or she had done. 不爽就打咯.

They went speechless for a while.
I didn't feel like elaborating more. They are seniors and how could I possibly 长篇大论 in front of them. I went on to talk about other things, led them to other conversation and I then I quietly excused myself.

I read from somewhere :
… children have never been very good at following instructions – but they do exceedingly well when it comes to imitating what the key adults do in their lives...

Although I will agree how the key adults in our life can play a part in moulding our characters, I can only be thankful for the good (if there's any) in me, but I cannot blame them for the bad in me. For in our growing years, we had (or should) also sharpened our sense of judgement, and mould ourselves accordingly.

A good foundation in the child's earlier growing years is always wonderful and very powerful. Parents with young kid(s)... mm... remind each other. :o)

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我真的有一点累

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Big Crosses + Small Ticks ..

Student M : Mr Nanzi, I got the answers. Why you mark me wrong?
Me : Young lady, when the methods are wrong, all answers however nice-looking are irrelevant.

There was a slight pause as she screened through her scripts.

Student M : Why your crosses are so big and your ticks are so small?
Me : Are you hurt because of this?
Student M : Ya lor.
Me : Okay lah okay lah. Next time I use small crosses and big ticks.



The conversation was held in a classroom in the midst of a lesson, audible enough for everyone to hear. And naturally, it drew much laughter.




Now..
Almost at the end of the day, in the middle of the night, I am thinking…

- It seems that I am too critical at times. Must I be that critical all the time, leaving no space for the others around me to breathe?

- It seems that I have amplified the wrongs and almost nullified the rights. Isn’t the opposite approach more wonderful?

- It seems that everyone, regardless of age, needs simple form of encouragement/motivation. Can’t I be the source of encouragement or motivation?

. . . .

Okay, I shall try working with big-ticks-small-crosses next time. :o)

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Being Practical (Of a Child)...

A young mother was relating to me a conversation she recently had with her precious young son.

It was during a very usual morning. The mother was already nicely dressed and seated herself in front of the mirror getting ready for a face-lift, and her little boy who had just woke up walked near to her and requested...

Very Little Boy (requested in a sad tone) : 妈妈,不要去工作。留下来陪我。

Young Mum : OK lor. 不要去工作。那么,就不可以买玩具了,也没有 Mac Donald.

Very Little Boy (with an insistent tone) : 妈妈,去工作。快一点去工作。



《玩具》 是小孩子们生存的主要推动力之一。
我们生存的主要推动力是何?

那一段对白或许会让我们发笑。
小孩子很明确的了解自己要些什么。
我们知道我们要的是什么吗?

我们可能会说那个小孩好现实。
会不会是现实的社会、现实的父母所影响的呢?


What's our driving force?
What we really want?
Is the world we live in being too practical?

Heh.. What am I talking about? Mm...

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If a nice story picks you up, maybe you can try this one : 2 choices.

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Saturday, April 12, 2008

My M3 hits 11.6 km/litre!

My M3 is really a drinker.

When I first possessed it about 3 years ago, I noticed the fuel consumption rate can never hit 10 km/litre. At times, it could go as low as only 9.0 km/litre. It kind of sounds like I was driving a 2-litre car. Argg

Last year, I got a device fixed. I had forgotten the name anyway. The rate somewhat improved to always slightly above 10 km/litre. It was good news. The most significant difference I felt was that my car immediately went significantly quieter. A strange sound constantly emitting from the engine which the technician couldn’t fix was immediately solved. I was already quiet satisfied actually.

Oh, at very irregular point in time after the fixture of that device, I realised the rate could improve to above 11 km/litre. The good rate wasn't that consistent. I didn’t know why.

Lately, I noticed a (wonderful) trend. The fuel consumption rate shot up to as high as 11.6 km/litre more regularly.
Technically speaking, I can cover at least 60 km more per full tank.
Most importantly, every ride feels so much more smoother too.

How I achieve that?

Nope. Not my driving technique. No more new devices.

In the past, I had always top up at a certain branch of Mobil/Esso most convenient to me. Lately, I top up at a different branch more regularly. Occasionally, when I still came back to the old branch which I more used to, the fuel consumption rate dropped again. Heh

I really suspect (for I don’t have the means to confirm) petrol kiosks of the same brand get their petrol from different sources. Or, it could be, at some branches, the petrol is somewhat more pure than the other. Haha..

Another not-too-bad point of topping up at that Upper Thomson branch is …
It is one of the biggest.
The Cheers store is also one of the biggest.
Some (not all, I think) household items within Cheers are priced the same as Fairprice.
But purchasing at Cheers with C-bank Dividend Card can have 5% Rebate. :p

Anyway, it’s just a silly observation of mine. But quiet consistent for the past 1 month liao lor. So, I am now avoiding that Semb. Branch near me and top up along Upper Thomson Road instead. I shall see if the good trend continues.

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I think I quite enjoy the clip below.

Self Portait of Elephant by Elephant


I hope the elephant learnt it through positive reinforcement approach and not through painful punishment.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Really Impressed!

What are your ideal grades?

~ 51% As…
~ 95% As and Bs…
No one get worse than C …
Besides, this is way above national average…

Wonderful!
I’m talking about PW. Really impressive. :o)

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Why can't the rest of the world get along?

Sunday, April 06, 2008

An Impressive Old Man.. (Part 2 of 2)

I have not been writing for so long..
Not that I have run of ideas to write. On the contrary, I am simply overwhelmed by what can be written. I need the discipline and time to pen it down. Ha.. When laziness sets in, we see nothing here lor.

Okay, today let me continue with what I had half-completed some weeks back (here). Although, it was not my personal experiences, I think I really learn from what he had experienced.

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The first night in the midst of the Da Han Shan went through not that eventful for T.

(1) At the break of dawn the next day, everyone seemed to be automatically (without any obvious coordination) started packing up and preparing breakfast. Not much conversation actually.

One-by-one, as long as they were ready to move, they set off. Yes, they set off almost non-coordinated and very much at their own pace, so to say. Maybe a little difference between T and the rest of the group would be, everyone seemed to know where would be their next rest point for the night, but not T. Hence, T got to really follow them very closely.

Oh, when I mentioned those people moved at their own pace, I really mean their own professional “pace”. Haha.. They were moving like mountain goats! No one (not even K, K being T’s unofficial guide if we don’t remember) will specially wait for T. Kaoz..

T really had a hard time following them, despite the fact that those mountain guides had other assigned tasks to do along their trails.


(2) When in such situations, will we feel cheated or feel like giving up?

In any case, T chose neither. He observed that those guides moved either individually or in small groups, and they moved at different intervals.

He worked out a plan. At every rest points, he took the initiative to ask about the nature of the trail to be taken for the next stretch and he tried to remember the special features to take note of. Besides, he decided to move out immediately when the first group (or the first person) set off. So, when he lost track of them (of him), he will either continue if the paths were obvious or wait at junctions for the next group (or individual) approaching. While waiting, he took breaks. Cool man.

That’s the spirit!


(3) At times, they got to clear shallow rivers. At times, they got to clear over-waist-height rivers. I shall talk about the former first.

When clearing shallow rivers, getting our shoe and socks soaking wet can be really uncomfortable. So, are we thinking of getting the best water-proof-and-most comfortable shoe for your next such trip? You know what the professionals were wearing? They wore those cheapo rubber boots we saw people wearing in wet markets or hawker centres, probably cost them less than RM10 per pair. You decide. Haha..

Another major problem was the silly blood-sucking leeches.

Undoubtedly, getting attacked by those blood-sucking leeches was so bloody common while crossing rivers (regardless of whether the rivers were knee-deep or waist-deep).

The question is of course “how to get rid of them”? Do remember that dear T had no prior training.. poor T

Seeing the leeches got so attached to our legs can be really gross enough. How about witnessing it growing bigger and bigger, redder and redder?

By books, force-plucking the leeches out from our body directly seems not to be the option. The way the leeches hook to our body must be rather clever, I guess. When we somehow manage to dislodge it from the leg with our right-hand, that monster gets attach to our right-hand quickly ; naturally, we then use our left-hand to pluck it off from our right-hand. If we successful dislodge it from our right-hand with our left-hand, then that monster gets attached to our left-hand and so on. “Attached” means “bite” lah. More bites means more wounds. Argg… Gross!

But this is not the worst. When T tried plucking off one of the big-fat ones (must have attached itself for so damn long), that wounds continue to bleed non-stop for hours. Okay, the wound need not be big, but the veins must be affected, his blood just kept oozing out, albeit bit by bit, but non-stop!!

Ha.. Please don’t hope for any first-aid box around.

T tended to that worst wound with his t-shirt and spare t-shirts. No bandage what. In no time, most (if not all) of his t-shirts got rather blood-tainted. Yet, the wound just refuse to heal and blood kept oozing out. At the rate that it was going, T worked out that he may died of blood-lost and not exhaustion. So, he approached one of them for consultation.

The natural remedial for non-stop bleeding leech bit : Just get a small piece of tissue paper or toilet paper, tear to size, but a few layers thick and lightly cover the wound with it. Yes, yes, in just a while, the paper will get blood soaked, but just leave it that way, don’t touch it. Amazingly, the pressure works just right, and clogging sets in sooner than expected.

T
was saved.

So, how to deal with leeches professionally?

Some suggested using heat. T got a lighter (as he is a smoker). No problem. The idea is to use the lighter, ignite it, bring the flame near the leech carefully (than means near your body also). By theory, the heat should cause harm to the leech and the leech will automatically dislodge itself. In practice, the body of these leech, albeit soft to the touch, seems pretty armoured-like. When T brought the flame near one, the flame was already causing much pain to his own leg, and yet the leech was only slowing dislodging itself. What a torture?!

When T observed how the professionals dealt with the problem, he was quite amazed. No one went by the book.
When attached, they just quickly pluck it off.
But how about the problem of it attaching to their hands.
The trick was that they plucked it off from their legs with their thumb and index finger quickly and forcefully. Just as quickly and forcefully, they rubbed the monster on the nearby rocks (or on any hard surfaces) reducing it to bloody-mince-meat.

Gross, but more effectively. T learnt and followed that.


(4) Crossing deeper river was tougher. It was even life-threatening at one stage.

But, I thought there were ropes facilitating the crossing? I am so wrong. Haha.. The rough rope is usually tied to a strong tree-trunk only at one end of the river side at first. They will let the other end of the rope to flow freely in the river. While during actual river-crossing-trip with green-horns, a guide will take the free end of the rope and walk towards the other end and tie it on another strong tree-trunk across the other side of the river. Only then, the green-horns will make use of the rope as life-line and cross the river. When all had crossed, one end of the rope will again be released and let it flow freely in the river.

But T was travelling with the professional mountain guides. No one used rope to cross. They just cross it by walking carefully directly on the river bed and exposing to the direct currents of the river. It might just be a piece of cake to the professionals, but to T (okay and even to me).. erm… dangerous lor.

T knew the danger, but he had no way of turning back. He chose to follow close to a strong-looking guide. He reminded himself to be extra careful and he took his every step with great care.

Imagine the river bed is full of rocks and sand. Of course, the rocks, being the protruding ones will be slightly more elevated. The sand will be at a much lower level, spreading between the rocks. So, for every step, T looked at the river bed and stepped on the strongest-looking rock so that he could be at slightly higher ground and feeling safer.

He noticed no matter how careful he was, his steps were very shaky. No, he wasn’t shivering. He just felt difficult to balance and he wondered why the others seemed to be moving just as gingerly but every of their steps were so stable. He must be weak, he felt.

At one point, the under current literally swept hard and he lost his footing. Just at that moment, a strong arm reached out for him and picked him up just like a big baby, he recalled. If not, he would be swept away by the current and the consequence would be unimaginable. The strong-looking guide saved him. He was grateful. The idea of crossing with a strong-looking guide nearby was a clever move.

There was a learning point, actually.
Once, T was picked up by the guide, the guide said, “Ah Pek, you step on the sand, not on the rock!”
You see, the rocks, albeit more protruding and make us stood at higher ground are definitely very slippery. The sand is obviously at a lower ground, but when stepped on, our footings are definitely more firm.
I also learnt. :o)

T had not much problem in river-crossing thereafter.


(5) It may be noted, for every night they stopped by pretty near rivers. The guides didn’t survive only on the food they brought. At evening, near their rest point, they went to clean themselves up (bathing by the river) and went fishing. They must be so skilled, they had some fresh fishes for almost every meals.


(6) What happen when the food and fresh-water resources went low? For the later part of the journey, T only had half-cup of milo as breakfast. Portion for dinner was also reduced drastically, sometimes only half a “bowl” of plain rice.

There were some guides who were lazy to cook (or maybe left with nothing to cook), and went pinching (asking for little shares of food) here and there. Ha.. So cooking meals and having small snacks became more and more discreetly done. T had some chocolate in his back-packs, he no longer dare to eat openly. He needed them for survival also (for he can’t cook and can’t fish in the wilderness).

Besides, learning to pick up the courage to drink from river is almost a must. T recalled that the river water wasn’t even clear and clean-looking. Since the rest just drank from it, he just got to do it alike. He was left with no choice actually as his drinking water he brought along cannot sustain him for 8 days. Gradually, he got used to it. He just prayed he will not get sick.

One other thing I must mention. What do you think T’s eating utensils were? Just the night before he set off, T bought an instant-cup-noodle, the type that even provides a plastic spoon. That night, he ate the instant noodle and kept the cup and spoon for his entire journey. The cup was used for his morning milo, evening porridge, or whatever that came by. Haha..


(7) As they gradually proceeded to higher altitude, weather turned cooler, especially at night. I thought luckily (the way I know T), T is hardly afraid of coldness. This part I was quite right. But… it was the monsoon season!

T recalled that on the second or third night, it literally poured. Water seeped into his tent. The water-proofing job wasn’t well done, and he got himself all soaking-wet. From they on, the only pair of trousers his was wearing (yes, he had no other pair to change) and the few t-shirts he was wearing and brought along were never completely dried.

In other words, in the day, he was moving in wetness or dampness. In the night, he was sleeping in wetness or dampness. Plus as the days went by, the night can be so cold. Can you take it? I don’t think I can.

Some nights, because of the dampness or wetness and coldness, T admitted it was so cold, he was shivering and stole only a bit of short-sleep here and there. Yet the next morning, they had to move on as usual.

T only prayed he wouldn’t get sick. He didn’t.
T also prayed that his gout problem will not surface during this trip. It didn’t also.
Somehow, his mental power is so strong. He remained sick-free and his leg pain-free throughout his journey. Mind over body! Heh..


(8) During one night, it poured so heavily that the river nearby, the river they were supposed to cross the next day swell really badly.

No worries, there wasn’t a flood.

The next day, the leader-of-sort, decided that the river was too dangerous to cross and they just had to stay put at their rest point. No kidding, stay put at their rest point the entire day, doing nothing. And so a day-and-night went by boringly.

The next day, the river wasn’t look much tamed. But the same leader-of-sort asked the whole team to make the crossing however. They couldn’t afford to waste more time, T guessed.

In any case, because of the 1-day delay. There was a price to pay also.


(9) On their last morning, it was announced, “today, we must cover about 23 km”.

Er.. I wonder the young army guys remember their 24 km route-march experience? After so many grilling days and nights in the mountain/forest, how was T going to cover 23 km in the forest/mountain?

T may not have a good idea of how long 23 km was, he only tried his best to follow. Apparently his best was not good enough.

At around 2pm, his guide who was actually far in front of him at first, made a detour back to trace for him. Upon seeing T, the guide said, “From now onwards, you must follow my pace, no matter what. If not we will be get caught in the dark. That wouldn’t be very nice.”

Those words came like a stern warning, but T understood the seriousness. T followed his guide obediently. But his guide (and any other guides) move like mountain goats. T got to run after him, literally. He even got to make small jumps here and there as they were many gaps and protruding tree roots and rocks along the way.

T said with a smile when he shared this experience, “For so many years, I didn’t know I could run, not to mention jump.”

With all the brisk-walk, jogging, running, jumping from 2pm....
they managed to reach the end point at around 8pm. No doubt, T was the last to reach. But I think he was/is still the overall winner.

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It may be noted, at the end point, they were all formally dismissed and each was making their own way back. At the railway station, T noticed he was again limping. The pain of the gout came back. He found a place to sit, he sat there waiting for his train in his blood-stained and damp t-shirt.

As he was waiting, he recalled...
“It all started as I cannot resist his offer of only RM400.”
“No regrets.”

Wow! For a retired old man to achieve that is indeed quite a feat!
There was a saying : 不爬大汉山非好汉!
看来,他真的是一条好汉!

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I am tired just by writing this long-entry.
How am I going to endure that kind of experience, experienced by T?
I admit, I am not that strong.

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Forced to be Parted ...

This (real) story was shared with me some weeks back. It rings in my ears now and so… I thought of writing it down before going to school.

The context is in Taiwan, and the story time-line stretches from about 30 years back till quite recently.

So… About 30 over years ago…
A married couple got together happily and in a few years time they got two baby boys, their ages only a few years apart.

In the boys’ young nurturing years, it may be noted..
Boy A : Very naughty. Caused many troubles at home and in school. Being caught stealing once. Rather rebellious.
Boy B : Very obedient. Study very hard and always get very good results. A model student.

Boy A had given the couple much headache. The couple had no idea how to handle the situation and was feeling quite lost.

有人说…
不懂就问人咯。
不然,也可以问神嘛。


Indeed, the couple approached a medium for explanation (for their child’s bad behaviours) and directions (to overcome the problem).

In brief, the medium said :
你这两个孩子,一个是来报恩的、一个是来讨债的。

And when enquired deeper, the medium refused to make it clear which is which.

So, the interesting couple went back home to observe.
While Boy A got from worse to worst, Boy B got more and more promising by days.

They were quite certain Boy A was the one that came to their family as their son to 讨债. That worried them quite a bit.
And this dear Boy B must be with them to 报恩. Boy B was their pride.

They made an unthinkable decision (but in those olden days, I was told such decision was quite common). What was it? They decided to give Boy A away. Yes, to give their bone-blood-flesh away to someone as a foster-child.

Oh well, the decision was made and Boy A was really given away to another couple (with no son) and literally disappear from their lives.

From then on, the couple’s lives only got happier, no more complaints received, only loads of praises about Boy B kept pouring in.

Many happy years had past.

Boy B continued to grow and later got himself a place in an university doing medical course. Not unexpectedly, he later graduated with flying colours too.

So.. Who says life isn’t a bed of roses??!! (Although roses have torns hor)

There were big plans for Boy B’s future too.

大家只是感觉到什么是前程似锦。
两位老人家也很安慰、感觉很幸福。


But.. just at such wonderful moment, Boy B was diagnosed with a rare illness. Immediate medical attention was needed. The medical expenses were so costly. But never mind, Boy B had got a dream to live okay! The parents sold one of their properties to cover the medical expenses.

Boy B’s condition did not improve and treatments dragged on. The couple needed to sell away some lands and properties they had to pay for the medical charges. But… As the weeks and months went by… the ultimate : the couple got to sell the house they were staying to cope. Downgrading was the only option then.

When their material wealth was thinned till such extent …
Not to mention that their mental conditions were challenged so extensively…
Not to mention how their pride, their hope seemed to be fading right in front of them…
Not to mention..

Okay, let me come back..
Just when blah blah blah
Boy B passed away.

The old couple was left behind with nothing-ness.
How would they be able to cope with the sorrows and poverty state at such old age??

Just when things seemed so bleak, Boy A came back to them and acknowledged them. Boy A had no grudges that he was once being given away. Boy A took the responsibility to take care of his biological parents unconditionally.

到底谁是来报恩?
而谁又是来讨债?
是我们肉眼凡胎来判断的吗?


Boy B 耗尽父母的家产,而在父母最无助的时候悄悄的离开。同时也把他们两老的毕生希望砸碎。

Boy A 却在父母最无助的时候悄悄的回来。没有计较、没有丝毫埋怨,只有尽心尽力来照顾父母两老,让他们从拾对人生的希望。

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When any two people come together, as family members, as relatives, as friends, as colleagues, as… erm.. anything in fact, yes… even as enemies… and so on.. , there is a reason why.

Let’s call this .

The fact remains 善缘、孽缘 no one knows ; 报恩、讨债 no one knows for sure too.

So how?

Simple.

若是善缘和报恩的话,我们就当珍惜与感恩。
废话!
Who don’t know?! Haha

若是孽缘和讨债的话,我们亦当甘愿与感恩。
废话!
Type wrongly right??!! Not really. Let me try..

孽缘也是我们的前世因果。
如果没有甘愿来承受,反而变本加厉,
那么这段孽缘并没有了断。
也就是说来世一定还会在相遇。

如果我们能甘愿来承受,
慢慢的就会自然了断这孽缘。
若有更高的智慧的话,说不定还可以把孽缘变成善缘。


In short, when things aren’t going the way we want it (especially in any human inter-relationships of all sorts), and if the only things we do are merely complain, curse, lament… and hope that things will suddenly become better. Mm.. Rather unlikely, unless…

若要有转机,明理的人要先开始。

Friday, March 21, 2008

TGIF..

看着电视机、听着收音机
都说今天是 Good Friday… 「耶稣受难日」

Few thoughts came to my mind…

耶稣为众所受的难 :值得吗?
Mm… I merely asking myself.
Of course, such thought will never cross His mind.
因为,
圣人就是跟着上天的旨意来办事。
只要是上天的旨意,就一定值得。
应该说,就连值不值得也没有衡量过。
因为,
能为上天办事本来就是无比的荣耀,
而那一种使命感就有无穷的推动力。


今天是一个纪念日

What have we recalled?
What can we feel?
What would we do after that?
If tomorrow is going to be just another day, then what is the purpose of today?

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有一位作者这么说:

每个人都会遇到困境,重点是,如何突破困境。
绝处逢生的精神,成就了传奇,
困境,並不可怕,
可怕的是,不懂得突破。

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

An Impressive Old Man.. (Part 1)

I think T will admit proudly that he is an old man. He had retired already what..
Yet, recently he had just returned from conquering 大汉山 (Gunong Tahan). It was a grilling 8 day trip.

T talked about how he landed there in the first place. Interestingly amazing, really.

T was just on his way to meet his mother in M’sia. Along the way (in M’sia), he decided to detour a little just to do a bit of sight-seeing (since he has so much time with him).

Little did he know, this detour will give me an experience of a life-time.

In the detour, he first met 3 other Irish tourists in a boat ride. And coincidentally, they also checked in the same dome. The tourists later jio-ed him to join them in caving, since the guide (K) they employed can take four people at a time. So they happily went to see bats and all in caves nearby.

K is certainly a professional one and they get to know him better and better along the way. At one point, K mentioned casually that he has another trip coming up.

T : Where?
K : Gunong Tahan

T got interested. It was one of his many dreams to conquer 大汉山. K made an offer of RM1200 to bring him along. Mm.. That is an official price for a guide, anyway. Further negotiation brought down the price to only RM400.

Let’s get the facts right. T was only carrying a small haversack and a water bottle as his original intention was to visit his mum in M’sia. In that haversack were only some t-shirts and snacks, okay and some books. With that, he said “yes” to conquer 大汉山?! Alright, he added another RM50 to request the guide to prepare the food items needed along the way.

All was agreed..
But wait a minute. T has always got gout problems in his right leg. At times, the pain can be so bad he can’t even walk. And most of the time, he is limping. T was limping a little at the time when the verbal agreement was exchanged.

So.. When T handed him the RM50 to the guide a day before the departure, he added : This RM50 you take it and help me to prepare the food items along the way. If tomorrow, my leg is fine, I will join you and pay up the remaining sum. But if my leg is still painful, I will not be able to join you. You can then just keep the RM50.

The next day, T’s right leg was miraculously perfectly fine. He paid up the balance, and they (only K and T, one super strong, one really old) set off.

I think K is simply too brave liao. But wait till he shared more about his experiences, you will be more impressed with him, I believe.

I shall try to recount a bit. Again, through my silly writing, you can only sense less than 10% of his braveness.

(1) When he reached the starting point of the climb/trek, he had some astonishing findings.

a. The guide brought him to a congregation of a few tens of professional guides, all young and strong waiting at the staring point. So T is .. erm.. undoubted the odd one out, the special one.

b.
The season was wrong. No one will ever think of conquering 大汉山 during the monsoon season. There will be so much rains. The rivers will swell. The paths will be slippery. The… alright you could just think about it. Remember few days back, many of us were complaining about the island-wide downpour for so long and so many days. Those were the days T were at 大汉山.

c.
That trip was actually specially organized for professional mountain guides (only) from all over M’sia. K was actually reprimanded for bringing T along, because K is not supposed to. Yet K decided to, just to earn some spare cash.

d.
There was a special mission for that trip. They carried long thick ropes. They were tasked to secure those ropes strategically to facilitate river crossing and/or steep slope climbing. They will also need to cut thick undergrowth and maybe to also clear the rubbish in the mountains. In other words, it was kind of house-keeping or maintenance trip by the professionals to prepare the routes for future use by tourists during the right season.

Have you already feel how out-of-place T must have felt?

(2) In the beginning, at the first congregation area, they were dispatched in small groups of about 4 to 5 people after a briefing-of-sort. I mean there was only one small speed boat but there were a few tens of people to be transported to another point (through shallow river) where they began the actual climb/trek.

T was dispatched at one of the last few trips.

When the speed boat stopped, they had to all jump down into the water of about knee-depth and they would walk to the dry shore and start they climb/trek immediately. The boat will then leave immediately to pick up the next batch.

T did something he shouldn’t.

When he reached the dry shore, he noticed his shoe and socks were soaking wet, making him very uncomfortable. He sat down to remove his shoe and soaks. He emptied the water in his shoe. He squeezed out the water in his socks. He wore them back and was ready to go. He stood up and realised he was all alone, beside a river, facing a dense forest on the slope of dear 大汉山. No one waited for him. He had no idea which direction they took. He had no idea whether they were splitted. He tried looking for trails left behind, but found none. He tried shouting to alert someone nearby, but got zero response. So technically speaking, he was lost before any actual climb/trek.

He knew he wasn't the last group leaving the first congregation area. But again, there was no guarantee that all the groups will have the same drop-off point.

Yet, he wasn’t really panicked. He noted that the speed boat journey took about 20 minutes along the rather shallow river. Worse come to worst, he just had to walk along the river and to track back the path the speed boat took.

He decided to sit himself on a rock in the middle of the shallow river and eat his snacks, drinking his water, and listening to the sound of nature in the immediately surrounding.

It was after quite a while, he sighted about two people walking nearby, walking slowly on the shallow river. He shouted to them and gladly those two people were also guides who were also in that same mission trip. So T requested to follow them.

According to T, luckily those two guides were really nature lover. They walked leisurely enjoying the peace around. T liked the pace, because that was the kind of pace he could follow. Haha..

At one point in time, one of the guides shouted to another. They seemed to have spotted something interesting.

What can be so interesting to have thrilled even the two experienced guides so much? When one of them pointed in a general direction to T about their finding, T couldn’t even figure out what was going on.

So the three went nearer (with a bit of climbing). They saw the largest and the most smelly flower in the world : Rafflesia.

Wow! The guides admitted that it was also their first time seeing the flower in full bloom. They had only seen them in the bud-stage in the past. Now, that was thrilling enough for anyone, yes, even the experienced mountain guides.

(3) T finally met up with the big group much later. They gathered together at the first rest point for the night. Maybe gathering is quite a wrong word. T said they worked very independently. They didn’t seem to communicate much with each other. They cooked their own meals. But K had to cook for T, since T was his customer. T is the only customer in that trip.

Anyway, usually cooking was only done during breakfast and dinner. For lunch, many survived with small snacks. Alright, some stopped briefly to cook instant noodles for lunch.

The first day/night went on just fine. It was quite an adventure ahead.

I am tired liao..
You must be tired reading such a long entry too..

To be continued..

Thursday, March 13, 2008

A Bark for a Bark

Happen to meet F just last afternoon. I recall quite a funny event.

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We were resting…

Suddenly, 3 wild dogs approached K and F who were sitting together (but I was more than 10 metres away watching). The dogs looked a bit fierce and were barking loudly at K and F while approaching them. The dogs advanced nearer and nearer and continue barking. They were then only about 3 metres away from K and F.

3 dogs barking… Rather loud indeed.

I noticed K appeared a bit stern (but remain seated), or rather more focused as he was staring at the dogs anticipating their next moves. He later told me that he was ever ready to deliver kicks at the dogs if they dare to come any nearer. In any case, the dogs continue to bark at them.

I was wondering then : Do they need my help?

But when the thought crossed my mind, I saw F stood up and got ready to act. I felt a bit more relief. I thought I could learn from F to see how he would handle the situation.

Why?
Because F lived in kampong during his childhood days well up to his teenage-years. Naturally, he would have more experience handling dogs, or even wild dogs. K on the other hand is very much a city person throughout his life.

But.. What F did was.. erm.. beyond my imagination.

He stood up and “bark” at the dogs. OMG! Haha..
On one side, we have 3 dogs barking at K and F ; on the other side, we have F “barking” at the 3 dogs. I know F was trying to scare the dogs away. But I tell you, the scene was so comical. It looked more like he was talking/communicating with the 3 dogs in the dog-language (bark).

And obviously F doesn’t know the dog-language well enough. He only made the dogs confused and barked ever louder. Haha..

I was thinking : Cham lah. What are you doing? Why challenge the (wild) dogs this way? *shake head*

It was then I think I need to go to their assistance.

I just walked calmly (but quite briskly) toward them (the 3 dogs, K and F). But my eyes were fixed firmly on the dogs, without blinking and I was carrying a disapproving look. When I was approaching nearer and nearer, the barks of the dogs got softer and softer. And when I was just about 2 metres away from the dogs, I waved lightly with my hands and they all kept quiet and quickly walked away.

Anyway, ...

(1) We were the one intruding into the dogs' space, I think. You see, we were not the first time there. At that timing, those 3 dogs were often found resting on that spot. That day for some reasons, K and F were resting on the resting spot for those dogs and of course when the dogs came by and saw their favourite resting spot being taken up, they became a bit furious.

(2) Whenever K talks about the event, he will always remember it as 4 dogs barking, not 3.

(3) Ha.. Am I fiercer than the (wild) dogs? :P

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有一位圣者这么说:

有形的富贵终必衰败,唯有无形的富贵,才能万古长存。

世人以为有财势则富,有地位则贵,
其实这是后天的富贵,也就是有形的富贵。

圣人以有德学则富,有才智则贵,
这才是先天的富贵,是属于无形的富贵。

所以,凡夫只重于有形,而圣贤这重于无形。